It is the past, why let it affect you? We are already moving forward our relationship why wanna let the past affect the present or the future?

I cannot believe at this point of time, one of the worst turn of my relationships, can something like this even happened. I got to know that omfg that someone can do this to break our relationship.

But still there are 2 positive things in this. Firstly, I consider myself to be a lucky person to experience first time of someone betraying me, and i would think it will be so much more worst in some other circumstances. It might be the greatest lesson i've ever learned in life.

Secondly, for something so bad to take a huge blow to our relationship, can it still withstand? I've not gave up on this relationship but if she chose to i will respect her decision. If the relationship is weak, even if it doesn't end now, it will end someday.